What a year of transition 2024 was…
Three years ago, I took a leap of faith, leaving the fast-paced life of Singapore to start anew in France. With just dreams and determination in my suitcase, I embarked on a journey that would forever change me. Today, as I close the chapter on my life as a student and open the door to a new phase, I can confidently say it was worth it.
Challenges That Shaped Me
Life as an international student was far from easy. Navigating a foreign culture, juggling finances, and balancing rigorous academic demands pushed me to my limits. Yet, it was in these moments of difficulty that I found strength I didn’t know I had.
The grit, perseverance, and resilience I had honed while living in competitive Singapore became my anchor. Singapore is a place where the pace of life is relentless, and the expectations are high. Those years prepared me to face any challenge that came my way. France, in comparison, offered a different kind of pace—less frenetic but no less demanding in its own way. My time here reaffirmed my ability to adapt and thrive in new environments.
Love, Stability, and Freedom
France became more than just a destination for education. It became a place where I found love and built the foundation for a stable life. Meeting my husband was an unexpected but beautiful part of this journey. His presence brought balance and joy, reminding me that success isn’t just about academic or professional achievements but also about meaningful relationships.
After earning my Master’s degree, I transitioned into the workforce and secured a stable job in Belgium. This milestone was the culmination of years of hard work and sacrifices, made even sweeter by the knowledge that I had now cleared all my student-related debts. Becoming debt-free has been a liberating experience, allowing me to focus on the next steps with a renewed sense of freedom and purpose.
The Gift of Proximity
One of the joys of living in France is its central location, which keeps me connected to the people who matter most to me. I’m content knowing that I live close to my cousin in Amsterdam and my best friend in Chambéry, along with many close friends scattered across Munich, Paris, Geneva, and Freiburg, to name a few places. The proximity to my loved ones has enriched my life and added a layer of comfort and belonging to this new chapter.
Reflecting on Gratitude and Looking Ahead
As I step into this new phase, I’m committed to looking back with gratitude. My success is not mine alone—it’s a testament to the support, kindness, and guidance of countless individuals who helped me along the way. My priority in the coming year is to thank and reciprocate their generosity in meaningful ways.
I also have several personal and professional goals for the next year and moving forward:
Learning to drive: Acquiring this skill will provide more independence and open up opportunities to explore more of France and beyond.
Considering a business venture: With my roots now firmly planted in France, I’m exploring the idea of starting a small business here, contributing to the community that has given me so much.
Saving for the future: Now that I’m financially stable, I aim to save for my senior years, ensuring long-term security.
Buying property: A small home in France would solidify my connection to this beautiful country and mark another milestone in building a life here.
International travel: Expanding my horizons to the Americas and Africa is a dream I hope to realize soon, broadening my understanding of the world and its diverse cultures.
Embracing a New Era
Leaving Singapore for France wasn’t just about pursuing a degree—it was about building a life. The challenges, triumphs, and lessons I’ve experienced over these years have shaped me into someone who is ready to take on the future with confidence and gratitude.
This is not just the end of an era; it’s the start of something even greater. With love, stability, freedom, and a network of cherished relationships nearby, I’m excited to continue this journey, embracing all the possibilities that lie ahead. The path has been worth every step, and I am endlessly grateful for where it has led me.
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I’ve always admired your grit, perseverance, and resilience! You’ve accomplished so much! More than most people do in a lifetime!
Keep the adventures going, John!
You’ve come a long way from that tiny desk with a laptop on it outside of your parent’s home working tech support for annoying customers like myself. LOL!
Get your driver’s license! You’ll need it when you’re out driving around the countryside looking for that home!
I still remember the Top Hosting Center days 🤣🤣🤣